Larkin Mortuary

Stanford Parley Darger

10/15/1920 - 05/07/2014

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The services for Stan Darger have been postponed till further notice due to family circumstances.  Please share this information with others who you feel may need to be informed.  We appreciate your kind thoughts and sympathy in this difficult time.

Thank you

 

The Stanford Darger Family.

 

After a wonderful and remarkable life, Stan Darger, of Salt Lake City, returned home to his Heavenly Father, his earthly father and mother, his brother Bob, sister Josephine, and best friend Rich James on May 7th 2014. His death was peaceful and anticipated. He was surrounded by all his children, most of his children in-law, three grandchildren, and his adored wife, who were actually singing one of his favorite hymns as he slipped through the veil. Although it may not be a great tragedy when a man of 93 dies, it is hard to picture our world without him.

Stan was born in Salt Lake on 10/15/20, a birthdate he always enjoyed. He was the second child of Perry Stanford and Eva Williams Darger. His father died of pneumonia when Stan was six years old. Stan graduated from the University of Utah in business and marketing, where he was a second generation member of Beta Theta Pi. He served an LDS mission in Eastern Canada.

On June 17, 1946, Stan was married to Arlene Barlow in the Salt Lake LDS temple by President George Albert Smith. For the last 68 years, Stan and Arlene have provided to their children, friends and neighbors an astonishing example of sweet, enduring love for each other. We never saw the one without the other. They were always holding hands, whether walking, sitting, or lying in bed. Often lately Dad would ask, with a twinkle in his eye, “Who is this movie star next to me?”

Stan worked for General Electric Company in Denver, Colorado and purchased and operated Darger Ford in Magna, Utah. For 18 years he was an executive with the Salt Lake area Chamber of Commerce. This was during the era when suburban shopping malls were beginning, and the survival of downtown merchants was threatened. Dad formed the Western Association of Retail Merchants to address those concerns. Under his direction downtown Salt Lake had many memorable promotions, including ‘Feed Your Family Free Downtown’, and a famous helicopter drop of hundreds of gift-certificate-stuffed ping-pong balls.

Stan served five terms in the Utah State legislature, and was the Majority Whip. Among the bills he authored and or sponsored were enabling legislation for the Salt Palace and the Utah Transit Authority, the State Industrial Development Act, the legislation to expand Trade Technical Institute into the Salt Lake Community College, and the Utah Freeport law. He tried unsuccessfully for years to pass Sunday closing legislation.

He loved the gospel of Jesus Christ, and felt that the very best calling in the church was as Sunday School Superintendent – a job he held several times. For 17 years Stan’s calling in the LDS church was as Business Manager of the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. His duties included finance and purchasing, setting up tours (including two presidential inaugurations and appearances at world’s fairs and area conferences), and handling the growing recording business.

Stan was a Senior Vice President with Valley Bank and Trust for twelve years. His community service included serving as executive vice president of the Downtown Planning Association, the business community arm set up to implement the 2nd Century Plan. He also served on the Board of Directors of Commercial Security Bank, and as the only non-lawyer on the Utah Bar Association’s Committee on Ethics and Discipline. He was a director of the Western Chapter of the Bank Marketing Association, and was a long-standing board member of the Huntsman Senior Games. He loved his association with the Salt Lake Rotary Club.

He started and operated businesses including video production, mail order jewelry, swimming pool construction, and Las Vegas Hotel and Motel Reservations before the days of 800 phone numbers.

Mom and Dad served an LDS mission to Frankfurt Germany where Stan served as executive secretary to the Area Presidency. While they were there the Berlin wall came down, and many eastern European countries opened up to missionary work.

In the 1990’s Dad and Mom opened and ran the ZCMI store in the This is the Place State Park for ten years. Their son and many grandchildren worked with them. We are grateful for the exceptional customer service skills they taught those kids.

Dad was a passionate Dixieland music fan. We were always aware of the music blazing from his bedroom as he got ready for work each morning. And Dad loved classic automobiles, owning as many as twenty at a time, including two fire engines. Neighborhood children loved to ride with him in his old cars on a Saturday afternoon. In Dad’s wallet he always carried a full collection of photos of his convertibles!

Stan is survived by his adored wife, Arlene, and five children: Stan Jr (Anne Carroll), Jan Denali, Ann Hatch (Randy), Jane Thomas (Matthew) and John (Constanza). He also leaves behind two sisters, Evalyn Bennett and Marion Woolf, and many beloved siblings-in-law, as well as 20 grandchildren, and sixteen great-grandchildren. Five additional babies are expected this year. We wonder if Dad will be the one assigned to bring them to earth. As he often said, “It’s been a wonderful life!”

Funeral services are being postponed for now due to family needs.  Dates of services will be announced at a later date.

Dad worked his way through college; alternating semesters between study and employment. One of his favorite jobs entailed traveling the country counting utility poles! Education was so important to Dad, and he helped all his children obtain their college training. A contribution in Stan’s memory to the LDS Perpetual Education Fund will make it easier for someone else to meet his or her educational goals.

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  • Dearest Arlene,
    David and I send our love , prayers and thoughts to you and your wonderful family at this time. I treasure my friendship and association with you while I served on the Young Women General Board with you. Stan and you were always the example of virtue, kindness and true charity. May you be filled with comfort and peace. Much love, Ann

    — Ann Seamons
  • Arlene and Family,

    We were so sorry to see the passing of our friend and colleague Stan Darger. I remember fondly those many experiences we had at Valley Bank. I also remember visiting with both of you at the ZCMI store at This Is The Place. Many of us learned much about client services from Stan. He was truly a good teacher and a friend to so many of us.

    You know I’m a fan of big band music as well as Dixieland.
    I often think of Stan when I am playing. I still play with a big 16 pcs. swing band. We play all the hits from the 30’s and 40’s.

    Unfortunately, Lucille and I will be in California with our son and his family at the time of Stan’s services. Thus, this poor excuse must do for expressing our condolences to all of you and to each of you. Arlene, to you especially, may the Lord’s special blessing be with you during this difficult time.
    Grant and Lucille Hurst

    — Grant and Lucille Hurst
  • Arlene and Family,

    I send my condolence to the dear family of Stan Darger. I am thinking of you and your dear family. May peace be with you. I treasure the time we spent together, it is a blessing to have your friendship a part of my life.

    Darlene Whitney

    — Darlene Whitney-Morgan