Barbara Barton Davis Ralphs

1918 ~ 2021


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Barbara Barton Davis Ralphs was born in Salt Lake City on September 30, 1918 to Charles Leonard Davis and Evelyn Barton. She lived her life within a four-block radius attending Douglas Elementary, Roosevelt Junior High, East High School, and the University of Utah.
She married the love of her life George Albert Ralphs (Bud) on January 9, 1942 and promptly sent him off to fight in WWII for four years. Barbara worked as an administrative assistant at the University of Utah for most of her adult life in the College of Nursing and the Music Department with Dr. Ed Thompson. She retired at the age of 84.
She became a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints two weeks before her 100th birthday and was sealed to her family shortly thereafter. Barbara was brilliant, hardworking, capable, stubborn, and altogether an amazing person. To quote a dear friend “The intelligence, style, and grace quotient of Heaven just went up a few notches”. Despite many struggles in her life she was always totally grateful for everything she had, most especially her family. She is the epitome of a life well lived. She lived independently in her own home until her last few months. We are immeasurably grateful to her loving caregivers Deb, Kimberly, Liz, Ondina and Jose.
She is survived by her children Virginia (Ginny) and Jesse Fox, Sally and Ron Larkin, and George and Laurie Ralphs. She is also survived by 13 grandchildren, 27 great grandchildren, and 6 great great grandchildren She is preceded in death by just about everyone she knew.
Barbara was always giving to others so in lieu of flowers please donate to your favorite charity. Or better yet, bake a loaf of banana bread and take it to someone who is feeling low.


Guestbook/Condolences

Barbara is now with Bud. Blessings go out to your family


- Jane Larkin Fischer

George and family. Sorry to hear about your mother. She sounds like she was an amazing person.


- Kent and Tina Loock

With deepest sympathy we are sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all of you. Love Kathleen and Sue


- Susan Knudson

I always came away after being with Babs as valued and hopeful person. Her hopeful outlook on life was swept me off my feet. THANK YOU BABS. Keep that light of yours shining.


- Kent Scott

We were privileged to live next door to Barbara for a full quarter of her amazing long life (25 1/2 years).
We chatted regularly and I will always remember her loves (lipstick! books!) and hates (gardening!).
I love the photos I took of her coming over to show me her new electric blue trainers at age 97 and to watch the eclipse (age 99) with her perfect posture.
For years, until recently, I would watch for her bedroom blinds to open and then call to check on her if they didn’t.
She remains in our hearts.
Xo Patrick, Josanne, Leo and Annie


- Josanne Glass

Ginny, your mom was so gracious and kind to that young junior high kid who used to incessantly ride his bike up and down in front of your home on Twelfth East, hoping to catch a glimpse of you. She would occasionally bring out treats to share and I remember how highly my mom spoke of her. What a thrill to read she joined the Church at 100! Perhaps she and my mom will now have the chance to get reacquainted. Comfort and blessings on your family.


- Scott Iverson

Fun to see that photo of your mom. I still picture her with her brown styled hair. Such a lovely woman and produced such wonderful daughters whom I love - Ginny especially knows how much she means to me.
Take care. Love Laura


- Laura Hansen

Sorry to hear Aunt Barbara passed. She was so dear and spunky. No matter how old, it’s still hard when they go! My thoughts and prayers are with you.


- Margaret Ralphs Donaldson