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Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 E Dimple Dell Road, Sandy, Utah

Thursday Dec 12, 2024 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM

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Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 E Dimple Dell Road, Sandy, Utah

Friday Dec 13, 2024 10:00 AM - 10:45 AM

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Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 E Dimple Dell Road, Sandy, Utah

Friday Dec 13, 2024 11:00 AM

Raymond Don Caldwell, 72, a beloved father and grandfather, passed away from complications related to a heart attack on December 5, 2024, surrounded by his family.

Raymond was born on September 26, 1952, in Provo, Utah to Don and Verna Caldwell. He graduated from Kearns High School in 1970. After high school, in 1971, he prepared for and served a full-time mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints in the Mexico North Mission, Spanish-speaking. 

After returning from his mission, Raymond joined a single adult choir, where he noticed a beautiful woman named Kathie Woolley, the pianist accompanying the choir. After a four-year courtship, Raymond married Kathie in the Salt Lake Temple on April 12, 1978. Music became an important part of their relationship, with Raymond singing and Kathie playing the piano. The couple initially lived in Sandy, Utah, before moving to South Weber, and most recently, Raymond made Bountiful, Utah his home.

Raymond and Kathie were married for nearly 33 years. He became widowed in 2011 after Kathie fought a brave seven-year battle with metastatic breast cancer. Together, they were blessed with six children: Jason, Mark, Amy, Jenny, Matthew, and Heather. Raymond had a particularly special bond with their youngest daughter, Heather, who tragically passed away in 1990 at the age of two and a half due to complications from her congenital heart defect. This loss was devastating for Raymond and the entire family. Throughout his life, Raymond was comforted by the blessings of the gospel and the knowledge of eternal families.

Raymond obtained his Bachelor of Arts in Accounting from the University of Utah in 1985. Later, he attended Brigham Young University (BYU), completing his Master of Accountancy in 1986. Despite attending both schools, he remained a loyal BYU fan. As a first-generation college graduate, he has always valued his education and helped make it a priority for his children and now his grandchildren.

Raymond took pride in his work. He is known for his exceptional work ethic which he developed as a young boy while helping his family as janitors for the church. As an adult, he worked for nine years at the Utah State Prison in various roles, including Correctional Officer, Sergeant, and Lieutenant. He then became a Deputy Constable, responsible for serving arrest warrants, all while attending college and supporting his young family.

After completing graduate school, he began his career as a Tax Accountant at Touche Ross, which is now known as Ernst & Young. For many years he ran his own business, Caldwell Tax & Accounting, where he found joy in providing tax services to family and friends. For 27 years, he worked as a Financial Manager at the Utah Department of Workforce Services and retired in 2021. Throughout his career, he was known as a respected leader and valued his relationships with his team.

Raymond was a devoted family man who cherished spending time with his loved ones and upholding traditions with his grandchildren. Notable traditions included the Great Pumpkin, Easter egg hunts, and Fourth of July festivities. Throughout his life, he enjoyed golfing and was lovingly considered the "Founder of Dad Jokes" by his children. 

Raymond had a beautiful tenor voice and participated in various choirs, which made family outings turn into lively sessions of carpool karaoke. He was an avid reader, immersing himself in books by authors like Uris, Grisham, and Baldacci. A talented cook, he found joy in preparing delicious meals for both his family and staff; among the crowd favorites were his Dutch oven potatoes and smoked meats. This passion and skill for cooking were passed down to his children and grandchildren.

Raymond also had an impressive candy stash and was always willing to share. In his retirement, he pursued photography and fly fishing, enjoyed attending plays and musicals, and fulfilled his lifelong dream of traveling to and fishing in Alaska.

Raymond was a devoted member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Throughout the years, he served in various capacities, but his favorite callings were as the ward and stake financial clerk, and most recently a Temple Ordinance Worker at the Bountiful, Utah Temple.

Surviving are his children: Jason (Rachael), Mark (Kim), Amy (Justin) Beecher-Fitzpatrick, Jenny, and Matthew (Stephanie), as well as his siblings: Steven (Joelyn), Susan (Steven) Berg, Bryce (Danna), Don (Theresa), and Deann (Carl) Jensen. He is also survived by eight grandsons and six granddaughters, who were his pride and joy, along with many in-laws, cousins, nieces, and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Kathie, in 2011; his daughter, Heather, in 1990; his parents, Don and Verna Caldwell; his father and mother-in-law, W. Grant and Clarice Woolley; as well as brothers-in-law Desmond Woolley and Glenn Martin, and both grandparents.

We would like to express our appreciation to Bountiful EMS and Lakeview Hospital for the expert care they provided to Raymond and for the support they offered our family.

Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, December 13th, at the Larkin Sunset Gardens Mortuary, located at 1950 E. 10600 S., Sandy, UT 84092. Family and friends may attend the viewing on Thursday, December 12th, from 6:00-8:00 p.m. or on Friday, December 13th, from 10:00-10:45 a.m. at the mortuary. The interment will take place at Larkin Sunset Gardens Cemetery.

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Guestbook/Condolences

I am deeply sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your father. During this difficult time, please remember how exceptional you are and how much you have achieved. Your father's pride in you was undoubtedly immense, and his legacy lives on through your excellence, wisdom, and kindness. My thoughts are with you and your family.

With heartfelt sympathy,

Christian

- Christian Azalde

Gary and I were very shocked and so saddened to hear of your father‘s passing. We have been truly blessed to know your dad ever since Matt and Stephanie were married, especially since we share two very special granddaughters. Thank goodness for the gospel and our knowledge of the plan of happiness! Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you and your families feel comfort and peace and know that we are thinking of you. Love, Gary and Carolyn Laird.

- Gary & Carolyn Laird

Brother Caldwell will be missed!

- Don Kopenhefer

What a sad, tender day it is for me to find out that my new, dear friend Ray Caldwell has passed on. I had the great privilege and honor to work with Ray in the Bountiful Temple. We had many, many moments together over the past several months. Times to share, learn, and grow. I heard of the tender moments with his daughter Heather and how God comforted Ray and Kathie when they lost their little one.

I heard Ray bear testimony on more than one occasion of the power of the ordinances of the Temple, and his personal experiences on his mission and throughout his life.

I saw Ray's face light up when he talked about his family, and could see the righteous pride in eyes especially when he talked about his children and what great workers they are and the things they were and are doing in their lives. To include Thanksgiving preparation and who would be doing what.

I loved hearing about the importance of education and what an example his father in law was to him in supporting education in the family. Ray felt the same way and wanted to promote learning with his posterity.

Ray was one smart man, that was aware of so many things, and yet so unassuming. He did not need any attention, but was always willing to give his all. That is what I call Christ like. I saw him when he was nervous, I saw him when it was difficult to stand up or get around, and yet he never focused on his challenges, but always extolled his blessings.

In the Temple, we always are impressed that the blessings and experiences we experience are not coincidences, but they are tender mercies. My time, one on one time, in private and public with Brother Raymond Don Caldwell is a great blessing in my life, and one that I will always cherish and be grateful for. I love the picture of Ray with his bright eyes, contagious smile, and great presence. What a great man, and dear friend. I am sure that there was and is a great reunion going on on the other side, and Ray will continue to have his presence felt with those he is no longer physically with. We love you Ray.

- Tim Johnson

Matt,
I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your father. May you find comfort in the plan of salvation. God bless you and your family.

- Irene Thomas

We extend our heartfelt condolences and pray for Ray's family. Ray was a devoted member of our Elders Quorum in the Bountiful Shadows Ward and loved to serve in the Bountiful Temple. He also served as a Ward Greeter, welcoming our members to Sacrament Meeting. We will miss Ray's testimony and jokes. It was fun to visit him and hear of Ray's trip to Alaska. He will be missed. Sincerely, David Oehler

- David Oehler

We send our deepest sympathies to your family. Please take care of yourselves at this time.

- Mike and Marilyn Miller

I worked along side Bro. Raymond at the Bountiful Temple. It was sad to hear of his passing. I am sure he is continuing with this work in gathering Isaerl on the other side of the Veil. I hope you will feel the comfort of your Father-In-Heaven as you grieve his loss.

- Jim Tripp

My thoughts are with all the family who are missing Raymond in their lives. I always enjoyed conversations with Raymond when I would visit with him at family get toghers. May God's love be with all of you.

- Kay Bryant

We are so grateful to know the Caldwell family. We love the example from your mom and dad over the years and their kindness. Thank you for sharing all of your experiences and for being a part of our lives. We love you all. Brad and Sharon Rich and Family.

- Brad & Sharon Rich

I was so sorry when Garna told me that your dad had passed. I wasn’t able to attend the surface, but I watched it on the Zoom podcast. I just wanted to tell you that it was such a beautiful, beautiful tribute to your dad. I wasn’t able to make it up, but I watched it on Zoom cast and hearing everyone talk. I wish I could’ve seen the displays that you made. I learned so many things about your dad that I didn’t know. I know you guys are going to miss him dearly till you see him again. What a beautiful job you did showing his love for you and your families and your love for him. Thank you for sharing it with all of us.

- Tunie Vennum (Cousin-Garna’s sister)