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Visitation
Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 E 10600 S, Sandy, UtahThursday Oct 10, 2024 10:00 AM - 11:00 AM
Rex Eugene Pickett, 66, was welcomed into the arms of his Heavenly Father on the afternoon of Tuesday, October 1, 2024, at his home in Draper, Utah.
Born on Flag Day, June 14, 1958, at St. Luke's Hospital in Boise, Idaho, to Dr. Hal Eugene and Patricia Anne Pickett, Rex was the eldest of five siblings. Together, they grew up enjoying the beauty of Idaho and the great outdoors. As soon as he was able, Rex spent his summers working on the Pickett Sheep and Cattle Ranch in Oakley, Idaho, which his family had settled in 1882. There, he learned the ranching values of hard work, dedication, and the joy of good food, while embracing the wide-open plains and his family's small-town roots.
In middle school, Rex discovered a passion for football, and by his senior year of high school, he had earned All-City Defensive Honors as a linebacker. His talent secured him a starting position on the All-Southern Idaho Conference 2nd Team champions. In addition to his football success, Rex was a state champion in the 400-meter dash and a proud member of the Boy Scouts of America, achieving the esteemed rank of Eagle Scout.
Rex graduated from Borah High School in 1977 and attended the College of Idaho on an academic and athletic scholarship. When the college canceled its football program after his first season, Rex transferred to Willamette University in Salem, Oregon, where he completed his education through a dual program with Stanford University. He continued playing football, served as Chapter President of Sigma Alpha Epsilon, and graduated in 1981 with a B.S. in Mathematics and Natural Sciences.
Much to Papa Pickett’s chagrin, Rex decided to take his “Natural Sciences” degree to new heights by pursuing one of his many passions: skiing. During a gap year, he worked at Bogus Basin Ski Resort, earning $4.50 an hour as a bus driver. He took great pride in navigating the 172 turns each way up and down the mountain, where he also worked as a lift operator. That season, Rex skied 156 days during a historically great snow year. He often recounted how, after each snowfall, he’d carve 80 fresh powder turns down the backside of the mountain to the lift shack where he worked. When the snow melted, his adventures continued as a tour guide for Princess Cruises in Alaska, a job made famous by The Love Boat. He quickly fell in love with the state and decided to move there, finding it to be the perfect playground for an outdoorsman like himself. While in Alaska, Rex became a private pilot, earned his floatplane certification, and pursued his passions for hiking, hunting, skiing, fishing, ice climbing, mountaineering, and glacier backpacking.
During his time in Alaska, Rex also completed a second B.S. degree in Civil Engineering at the University of Alaska. In 1986, he began his career with the U.S. Army Corps of Engineers, where he served as a project manager for multiple complex, multi-million-dollar projects in the unforgiving northern frontier, earning numerous awards for his work.
Yet, all of these adventures paled in comparison to the day Rex accepted Jesus Christ as his Savior on September 22, 1992. From that moment, he saw creation in a whole new way. The following morning, he always said the beauty of Alaska was magnified tenfold, and he viewed the world in an entirely different light.
While working as the Project Engineer on Shemya AFB, the most remote base in the world—an isolated 2x4-mile island in the middle of the Bering Sea—Rex met Dr. Heather Viesselman, affectionately known as “the last doc on the rock.” Both arriving late to a mutual friend’s going-away party, they naturally chose to sit in the back—right next to each other. Little did Rex know that this shared unpunctuality would lead him to meet the love of his life. When Heather was reassigned to Edwards Air Force Base, Rex left the state he adored to follow the woman he loved more, moving to a barren 10,000-square-mile desert base in California. He was assigned to Fort Irwin, the premier Army National Training Center, where he faced the challenges of civil engineering in a harsh desert environment—polar opposites of his experiences in Alaska!
The month before their wedding, Heather was deployed to Fort Irwin for a desert assignment. Always one to have fun, Rex convinced the hospital commander to let him pose as a wartime photographer so he could see Heather in the middle of the desert. He brought her and the troops treats as they endured the scorching 130°F heat!
Rex and Heather were married on September 20, 1997, while she was stationed at Edwards. He became her right hand as she worked with the USAF Test Pilot School and NASA as a flight surgeon, commuting 84 miles each way to see her on weekends. As a military spouse, Rex transferred with Heather to Offutt Air Force Base in Nebraska, where she began her family medicine residency in 1998. Rex “crossed over to the dark side” and started working for the United States Air Force with the 55th Civil Engineering Squadron. During that time, he also served as a lieutenant with the North Omaha Civil Air Patrol squadron, encouraging underrepresented children to consider careers in aviation and the Air Force. Additionally, he led youth groups on skiing and mountaineering trips in Colorado. No wonder he was known as "Reximum"!
Just before 9/11, Rex and Heather were blessed to move to Ramstein AFB in Germany, where he worked with the 735th CE Squadron. Despite the challenges of the Iraqi War, which required Heather to deploy downrange, they enjoyed three fantastic years traveling throughout Europe—skiing the French, Italian, Swiss, German, and Austrian Alps with the Tannenbaum Ski Club, backpacking in the Swiss Alps, and, of course, getting some custom lederhosen!
While in Germany, Rex received numerous local, regional, and USAF awards, including the National Department of Energy Award and the Civilian of the Year Award for his work in energy engineering. He collaborated closely with Siemens International, who wanted to hire him to remain in Germany, but he selflessly followed Heather to Scott AFB, where she became a family medicine residency professor.
After seven years of prayer, the Lord blessed Rex and Heather with beautiful twins, Aiden and Brenna. He made the decision to retire after 20 years in the U.S. Civil Service, stepping away from his full-time engineering career to stay home and be the best dad he could be while Heather served in the Air Force. During the twins’ first year, Rex took them to see Heather every day—whether it was in labor and delivery, the ICU, or the clinic—so she could feed them. Everyone loved seeing Rex navigate the halls of the hospital or clinic with the twin stroller, looking for his lovely wife so they could have lunch together.
In 2008, they moved to Nellis Air Force Base in Las Vegas, where Rex once again supported Heather as she helped establish the Nellis Air Force Base Family Medicine Residency. During this time, he was right by her side, helping raise the kids and introducing them to all the joys of desert living. Heather would routinely call to check in, only to learn that Rex had taken the toddler twins out to explore Nevada’s beautiful desert. Whether climbing rock faces, wandering through the woods, or toughening their feet by walking barefoot on hot rocks, Rex believed children should get outside and have adventures early on, and he cherished the freedom to facilitate that.
Drawing on his Eagle Scout experience, Rex became a Cub and Boy Scoutmaster, leading numerous camping trips across the West. He gained a reputation in the troop and at church for his delicious mountain man breakfasts and thrilling firebombs. Most notorious for the latter, he would pour the oil leftover from cooking over the campfire using a 15-foot pole, watching as flames shot up 20 feet into the air. This and many other stunts earned him the title of “Cool” Cub Scout leader in the group. He also served as a deacon at Citywide Redeemer Church and fulfilled one of his dreams by becoming a ski patroller at the Las Vegas Ski and Snowboard Resort.
Heather retired from the Air Force in 2013 with Rex by her side. They remained in Las Vegas for five more years while he devoted himself to raising their children during their most formative years. When Heather received a job offer in Utah, he faithfully followed her once again in 2018. They joked that she let him pick the house since he had supported her throughout her career. God blessed them with a true outdoorsman's home, complete with eight garages for multiple campers, trailers, toys, tools, and all things adventurous!
Taking full advantage of the Utah mountains and the "greatest snow on Earth," Rex became a Snowbasin Ski Patroller, where he worked for the last six years, serving the community and helping set up a new clinic on site. He also rekindled his passion for backcountry skiing with his son, Aiden, teaching him how to stay safe in the mountains.
Rex was heavily involved with his children, their friends, and many extracurricular activities at Intermountain Christian School (ICS). He was the ultimate volleyball and baseball dad, recording every play his kids participated in so they could review them later. He made significant contributions to Brenna’s theater productions; before each play, he could often be found engineering sets in his garage, much to his wife's dismay. His impact on the ICS theater department is still felt today, particularly in the theater shed. He was a wonderful “American Papa” to Kayla Tran, their international Vietnamese student for 18 months, introducing her to the joys of the state they loved.
During their marriage, Rex and Heather participated in numerous Christian medical missions to Mexico (3), Haiti (6), Honduran prisons, Costa Rica, Ecuador, and the Dominican Republic. Rex was consistently the MVP of every mission, thanks to his engineering skills, spiritual leadership, and medical expertise. He felt a special connection to Haiti, having traveled there frequently to help establish water systems and engineering projects aimed at preventing flooding in orphanages. This dedication stemmed from his selfless, servant-oriented lifestyle—a trait he demonstrated throughout his life. Rex served as a deacon at both City-Wide Redeemer Church in Las Vegas, Nevada and Corner Canyon Church in Draper, Utah. At the time of his death, he was an elder at Corner Canyon Church, overseeing a troop of Boy Scouts who were helping the church install a new floor - an actual Eagle Scout project!
He further pursued his passion for amateur radio, amassing a large collection of radios and consistently using them during field days. As an aviation enthusiast, he served as a pit crew member for the Reno Air Races for three years, deepening his love for aviation. He honed his mountain biking skills with a real bike—not his 80s Alaskan Pegasus with no suspension. On his 61st birthday, Rex hiked 14 miles round trip, alone, up the Trail of the Eagle behind his house on a whim. In July 2024, the entire Pickett family became certified as advanced open water divers, and Rex was already planning a trip to the Red Sea. A true renaissance man, he fell in love with Utah, even though it wasn't Alaska, and enjoyed the outdoor playground it offered with his family.
Rex and Heather celebrated 27 years of marriage last month, and he was so proud to see Aiden and Brenna graduate from Intermountain Christian School in 2024 and begin their college journeys at the University of Utah and Pepperdine University, respectively. Never one to be idle, Rex had plans to start working as a project manager for a Christian construction ministry in Utah County. A consummate patriot, he held great respect for his country and its flag. Just last month, he participated in Pepperdine’s annual 9/11 Memorial 'Waves of Flags' event, raising 2,977 flags in honor of each person lost on 9/11.
On Tuesday, October 1, 2024, Rex woke up early for a mountain bike ride to experience the creation he so dearly loved. Afterward, with Heather by his side, he took his final swing with a 220-yard 5-iron using his new custom golf clubs. He immediately called Aiden, who was incredibly proud! Rex was working on his truck, planning a hunting trip for himself and Aiden, and getting ready to see a play that night with his lovely wife. Yet, in God's perfect timing, Rex was ushered into his ultimate adventure—face-to-face with Jesus Christ. We believe he was greeted with Matthew 25:21: “Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.”
Rex is survived by his wife, Heather; his son, Aiden; and his daughter, Brenna. He is also survived by his mother, Patricia Saxon; his brothers, Eric Pickett and Clark Pickett (Jim); and his sisters, Lynda Lameh (Pier) and Sharon Pickett. Additionally, Rex is survived by his two faithful dogs, Penn and Carma. He was preceded in death by his father, Hal Pickett.
Services celebrating the life of Rex Eugene Pickett are scheduled for Thursday, October 10, 2024, at Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 E. 10600 S., Sandy, UT. Family and friends are invited to gather for visitation starting at 10:00 a.m. Rex’s brother-n-law, Scott Viesselman, will officiate the Memorial Service at 11:00 a.m. A graveside service will take place at noon with Pastor Phillip Glassmeyer. In honor of Rex’s legacy, memorial contributions may be made to cfhaiti.org, the organization through which he ministered in Haiti.
A luncheon will be held following the service at The Chateau at Le Jardin, 1910 E 10600 S, Sandy from 1:00-3:00PM
Those wishing to view the COMPLETED service via Zoom can click "Watch Service" or follow the link: https://us02web.zoom.us/rec/share/RGeZymZyAid0p7ATbj1tDloe0FNPpHnCukwvFJb3eGyCPK-l0Atbhw4bB6I9aS2K.xMbAJ6HUaCG1w56f?startTime=1728578939000
Guestbook/Condolences
Thank you so much for sharing this obituary and chronicle of Rex's life. I am shocked and deeply saddened to hear the news of Rex's untimely passing. Truly a remarkable and extremely humble person.
I had the benefit of ski patrolling with Rex for the past 5 seasons at Snowbasin and immensely enjoyed my experiences and interactions with him. Rex was one of the first patrollers to take me out for runs to "learn" the mountain and we had many a great lap, especially skiing Dwayne's.
In addition, it was a tribute to his loyalty to duty that he continued patrolling the last few years even though injury restricted his ability to enjoy his passion for skiing. He continued to show up each and every weekend to manage the base clinic with exceptionalism. This is often a thankless yet demanding task which he performed with aplomb. For this, I believe he was admired by many on our patrol.
I am truly a better person from having met Rex and shall never forget him. Please accept my condolences and know that I have you all in my thoughts and prayers. May God bless you all.
We are so deeply sorry for your family’s sudden loss & Heaven’s rich gain. We love you very much & you’re all in our prayers.
My wife Lorena and I send you and your family our deepest condolences. May the Lord be with you during this trying time. Rejoice in the memories that Rex lived an exciting and adventurous life and that he knows the Lord. God bless.
Our prayers and hearts are with your family. We are so thankful we met Rex at Pepperdine and experienced his kind and friendly spirit. We have been blessed!
I cannot put into words the loss I feel about losing my brother, Rex.
I give thanks to God for the hospitality of the Pickett family in giving me a safe place to live, surrounded by a loving family when I needed it most.
Thank you to the Pickett family for all the fun times at Snowbird and Snowbasin.
Thank you for the great coffee...and the heavy whipped cream!
Thank you again for your generous hospitality. You are an example of Christ's love, Ms. Heather.
Thank you for home-cooked meals.
Thank you Heather for the encouragement to keep on pushing my career, to learn more that I may be of service to those who are suffering.
Thank you, Rex, I will miss you beloved brother in Christ. You are a true man's man.
My deepest condolences for the loss of one of the great characters I had the honor to know in my life. Rex was like a brother from another mother and a dear friend. His warmth and sense of adventure were incredibly contagious. He was such a good man, fun man, and decent man. Just not enough good things can be said about Rex. He will certainly be missed but never forgotten. He made such an enormous impact on so many lives. God bless, Rex. RIP when Godspeed.
I'm so sorry for you and all your family Sharon.
Heather, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m so glad Jill and I were able to meet Rex. Prayers of His comfort for you and your family. What an amazing tribute this is!
I am so sorry for your loss Pickett family. I got to know Rex while patrolling at Snowbasin with him. He was a genuinely good man. He had a love of God and his fellow man that was evident in the way he treated patients and coworkers. I pray that you feel peace and comfort in your time of loss.
Jared Bradley
What a fascinating life Rex led! Wonderful obituary. So glad you are all leaning on God. We know that Rex is in the loving arms of Jesus. He will leave such a void at Corner Canyon. Proud to have been acquainted with him.
We are so brokenhearted to hear about Rex’s death. We rejoice in knowing he is with the Lord in every sense now and praying for you, Heather, Aiden and Brenna. Rex’s kind heart, his adventuresome spirit, and his hospitality will be greatly missed! We loved reading the obituary and learning more about Rex’s life. We love you, Robert and Kari
My heart goes out to the Pickett family. There are not enough good words to describe Rex. Thoughtful, caring, compassionate, insightful, fun and intelligent just to name a few. Rex helped me come up with equipment ideas and techniques to get me back skiing after I was injured from falling off a roof. We rehabilitated together while working in the Snowbasin clinic where I witnessed his care and compassion for our patients first hand. I will truly miss our days ski patrolling and enjoying the mountains. Godspeed brother.
I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Finally, there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give to me on that Day, and not to me only but also to all who have loved His appearing.
2 Timothy 4:6-8 New King James Version (NKJV)
"The twinkling of the eye". We will meet again Brother Rex!
The Meyer Family
I can't say I knew how well Heather. I do know the few times you stayed with us while visiting Rod I grew to love the two of you. What a GREAT Man!! We are truly Bless to have had him in our lives
May The Good Lord Bless and comfort you and the family
Gary
Rex, we are so fortunate to have shared in your wonderful adventures at Edwards. You have left us too soon. May your memory continue to be a source of inspiration and strength to so many others.
My heartfelt condolences, love, strength and prayers to you all. So sad to hear about Rex. Trying to livestream but it doesn’t seem to be working
Dear Heather,
We are deeply saddened to hear about Rex. We are very sorry for your loss.
Kayla always spoke so fondly about all of you, and we know how much she cherishes being part of your loving family. On our daughter’s journey, she was very fortunate and happy to live in the loving arms of your family. She is truly blessed to have you and Rex as her American parents. We are very grateful to you and you all will always hold a special place in our hearts. It saddens us that we haven’t yet had the chance to introduce Vietnam to you all.
We are sending our deepest condolences, prayers, love, and hugs to you, Aiden, and Brenna from Vietnam.
From Kayla’s family with love.
I am sorry for your loss Heather. How sudden life can change. Rex loves you dearly and will always be near. You are in my thoughts at such a tender time. God bless you and your children. Love you dearly. Merrilee
I’m so sorry for your loss of a wonderful husband and father! May Yah’s (God’s) shalom (peace) be upon you in this time of grief! Words cannot express! May his memory be a blessing to those who know him.
Dear Heather, and family,
We watched the service. It was a wonderful tribute to a wonderful man, It is clear he was a blessing to all he came in contact with, A lesson we all need to practice everyday.
May God comfort and be with you during this difficult time
With Love,
Don & Nancy Thaemert
We are so saddened and shocked at the news of our brother Rex. Rex was the ultimate team player, team member, gentleman and friend, who gave life to any and all situations we ever saw him in. It was truly an honor serving with both him and the rest of the Pickett family in the DR. Lord bless all of you as you navigate through this difficult time. I look forward to hanging out with you Rex when Jesus calls me home. You will be a ray of “Son-shine” to all in heaven