Emerito Torres 1931-2021
On September 15, after a battle with Alzheimer’s, the patriarch of our family and friend to all looked up to the sky one last time and moved on to the next life. He was fortunate to be at home and surrounded by family.
Emerito was born in 1931 in the small town of Quemado De Guines, Cuba. He, his 3 sisters and 6 brothers helped manage a large sugarcane plantation and cattle farm which was created by his grandparents Jose and Francisca and then greatly expanded by his father Maximo. His mother Pilar died when he was a child, and he was raised by his grandmother and father. He talked often of his love for the farm, riding horses, playing baseball, boxing, diving from tall palms into shallow creeks and eating all the delicious fruits and vegetables that Cuba had to offer. He went to school just long enough to learn to read and write then spent his time working hard to provide for the large family. He read the newspaper to his father every day. He kept them apprised of current events and the unfolding developments of WWII. Reading the newspaper piqued his interest in politics. In his early twenties he left the farm, moved to Havana, and joined the Cuban Air Force. When Fidel Castro began a revolution, Emerito was eager to defend the Cuba he knew and loved. He often told stories of pursuing Che Guevara and the guerrilla fighters in the jungles of the Sierra Maestra. After the revolution he stayed in Havana, working in his brother’s medical clinic. In 1965 the United States began Freedom Flights to bring Cuban refugees to Miami. Emerito was one of the first to sign up and was told the waiting period would only be a few months. Ultimately, he spent 5 years in the terrible conditions of a forced labor camp before his number was finally called.
He arrived in Miami on January 1, 1970, with only “the clothes on my back.” He kneeled to kiss the tarmac, grateful for his freedom. Although he spoke no English, he quickly got three jobs working day and night. A month later he moved to Greenwich, Connecticut. He found a job in a hospital where he met Annette Fonnesbeck, a nice nurse from Utah. They were married and had their first two children in Greenwich. He was baptized a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints before they moved to Salt Lake City in 1974. They were sealed April 25, 1975, in the Salt Lake Temple.
Emerito found his dream home in Sugarhouse. On its large lot he renewed his love for farming by creating beautiful vegetable and flower gardens. He and Annette added four more children to their family. He worked for 25 years as a florist with Salt Lake City Parks Department where he grew, designed, and immaculately maintained flower beds at all city properties. He loved working at Liberty Park and the Jordan Park International Peace Gardens.
Emerito left Cuba in despair for his homeland under Castro, but he gained a lifelong love and appreciation for the United States, its freedoms, and the American Dream. He was fortunate to have found a new community in the Salt Lake Parley’s Stake. He never lacked friends and was respected by all who knew his story. No one was more industrious. He served all in need, giving generously of his labor and skills. He took pride in hard work, always making sure the job was done right. He lived his life with a hoe, rake, or machete in his hands until two weeks before he died. His politics were conservative, and he despised communism. He enjoyed discussing politics and always had great concern for anyone he felt took their American citizenship and freedoms for granted.
He loved over-ripe bananas, buttercup squash, black beans and rice, pork roast, yucca, astrophysics, a perfectly manicured hedge, and a well-tailored suit. He had great faith, loved going to church and knew his Heavenly Father loved him. More than anything he loved his family in Salt Lake City, Miami, and Cuba. He never stopped working to provide for his wife, children and 26 grandchildren.
Preceded in death by his parents, three sisters and two brothers. Survived by brothers Armando, Gerardo, Luis, Alberto of Florida, and Cuba. Also survived by his patient and loving wife and children: Matthew (Emily), Jennifer Smart (Tim), Peter (Sarah), Aaron (Hillary), Maria Mendivil (Alain), Paul (Tricia); and grandchildren Chandler, Gabriel, Lucas, Theo, Vivian, Lucia; Samuel, Olivia, Eliza, Lucy; Maximo, Sophia, Grace, Emma; Abram, Isabelle, Hazel, Mack; Thomas, Vincent, Ada, Elaine; Maile, Lydia, Rachel, Paul and 5 great grandchildren, along with a host of in-laws and extended family across the country who loved him.
Heavenly gardens will now thrive. Emerito has arrived.
Services will be held Friday October 01, 2021, at 11:00 am at the Parley’s Stake Center – 1870 E. Parleys Canyon Blvd. SLC, UT 84106. Friends may visit Friday from 9:00 am to 10:30 am at the same location. Interment at Logan City Cemetery following services
Please use the following link for those who wish to view the service online. https://youtu.be/H_Kg9RTcLro
We send our condolences for our loving uncle, brother and brother in law. He was a great loving man who will be missed by us all. If there’s ever a jar in heaven that needs to be popped open Emerito can Lend his huge hands to help.
I’m delighted to have known Emerito.
I wish I could have been present at the funeral to share in the memories, but thank you for broadcasting the service. It was wonderful to see your faces!
May God’s love abide with you.
To Annette and all of your family,
My sincere condolences on the temporary separation from your beloved husband and father Emerito. What an amazing man who left such a powerful example. We love you and mourn with you. May you feel comfort and hope in the knowledge of the plan of salvation.
Sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you all. I loved to see Emerito at the family reunion, such a beautiful spirit, with love and kindness given to all those who meet him.
Best wishes and my prayers are with you all.
Words just will not come out. Emerito was the best of the best. Am so sorry. My love to you all. God bless him and you. Patsie
Annette - our deepest condolences to you on the loss of your very unique husband,
We wish you peace and comfort at this time.
The Jeffs Dick & Kathy 🙂👩
Rest in peace, man. Thanks for the stories. :-)
So saddened to hear of you family's loss. It is true, Emerito was greatly respected & loved by all who knew him. I admired so much his love of his country, hard work ethic, and faith. I have great memories of him riding his bike around the neighborhood, working to beautify the place that he loved. He was always someone you knew you could depend on, always offering to help, and was a man of his word. So grateful I was able to know him. What a great legacy he has left behind!
I remember when we moved into our home in Sugarhouse. We wanted to put a garden in our backyard, but the ground needed to be turned over. Emmerito showed up at my door saying I have come. I told him that we could turn the ground over but he insisted that he would do it. He really worked to get all the ground turned over so we could plant a vegetable garden. He went above and beyond in service and kindness.
Thank you Emerito, for living a beautiful life and letting us all be a part of it. Knowing you were cruising the neighborhood on your bicycle always made me feel safe. You and your family were a huge part of my childhood, and I will be forever grateful to you. ❤️