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Evelyn Erica Trauffer Barnes


19372026

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Evelyn Erica Trauffer Barnes passed away Friday, September 11, 2026, in Salt Lake City, Utah, at the age of almost 89. Evelyn was born September 14, 1937, in Salt Lake City, Utah, to Walter and Hermine Gysler Trauffer, the youngest of 4 daughters (Joy, Pearl, Gloria, Evelyn). She grew up in Lincoln Ward, lived on Ramona Avenue in Sugarhouse and graduated from South High in 1955. At the age of 19 she moved with her parents to Zollikofen, Switzerland, where her father served as the President of the Swiss Temple. While she was there, she served as her father’s secretary and also taught English to the Temple Recorder. Also while she was there, she met a most handsome, kind missionary, Lee Barnes, who was serving in the Swiss Austrian Mission and who she married November 12, 1959, in the Salt Lake Temple. Their ceremony was performed by her boss at the time, Elder Gordon B Hinckley. She loved being Lee’s wife and a mother to Jill, Steve and Matt. She was always very proud of her family.

After renting for 7 years, they bought a home on Sands Drive in Holladay and became members of the Valley View 2nd Ward. Here they made many wonderful life-long friends. Evelyn loved being a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and found great joy in all the many different opportunities she had to serve. She worked in PTA. She was a secretary in the Church Educational System for 20 years. She loved serving as a receptionist for 10 years in the Jordan River Temple and together with Lee as volunteers in the Temple View Room in the Salt Lake Temple. She and her sister, Pearl, spent many years doing Family History. She did not miss many of her children and grandchildren’s recitals or sporting events. Evelyn and Lee have watched a lot of basketball games. Evelyn loved life and life was good.

Evelyn is survived by her husband of 66 years, their 3 children and their spouses, Jill and David Young, Stephen and Robyn Hill Barnes, and Matthew and Trudy Griffin Barnes, 10 grandchildren - Danny (Molly Jensen) Young, Trent (Natalie Kinnersley) Young, Tiffany (Taylor) Christensen, Wendy (Scott) Smith, Jamie (Ben Knaak) Barnes, Karie (Dylan) Achter, Sean Barnes, Brooklyn (Zach) Cantwell, Jordan Barnes, and Lexi Barnes; 17 great grandchildren - Cruz, Eli, Waylon, Liesl, Chaz, Hadley, Ryan, Deacon, Kenna, Ellie, Jackson, Sadie, Mayzi, Finn, Bennett, Mason, and Quincy; and her sister Pearl Angelos. She was preceded in death by her parents, parents in-law, Bernard and Hilda Matti Barnes, two of her sisters, Joy Urry and Gloria Nichols, brothers-in-law Herb Urry, Gus Angelos, Joe Nichols, Blaine Barnes, and great granddaughter, IzzyJane Young.

In lieu of flowers, please consider contributing to the Flutterby IzzyJane Foundation.

"Written by Evelyn January 16, 2021"

A visitation will be held Wednesday September 16, 2026 from 6:00-8:00 pm at the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints located at 4395 Albright Drive, Holladay, Utah.

A family Graveside service will be held on Thursday September 17, 2026 at 10:00 am. at Wasatch Lawn Memorial Park, 3401 S Highland Drive, Salt Lake City, Utah.

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So sorry to hear this, Coach Barnes. I’m sure she did watch her fair share of basketball games over the years—haha. She was very lucky to have you as her son, just as I’m sure you feel fortunate to have had her as your mom.

My deepest condolences to you and your entire family during this difficult time. Thinking of you and wishing you comfort and peace in the days ahead.

Dan Del Porto

Evelyn became a second mother to me back in my junior year of high school. Through my relationship with Matt I became a part of the Barnes family and have loved every second of it since. Matt and Steve are definitely brothers to me and Jill and Dave have been nothing but amazing to me. Lee is a man I have looked up to over the last 40 years and I just love the Barnes family!! Thank you Evelyn for always being just so incredibly loving to me. I will miss you!

Pete Pehrson

Oh how we love Aunt Dee Dee. She always had a smile on her face. Always so kind. She was funny also. We will miss her. We love her and look forward to seeing her again.

Suzanne and Bob Nichols

I have so many fun memories of the MANY athletic events we shared together over the years!
We always loved being with you and your family members. We send our sincerest love and sympathy to each of you!!!!

Marcia Peterson

I served at the University of Utah Institute over all of the church sororities for many years. Evelyn was my go to every time I needed help with finances. She was good with numbers and so patient helping us keep our books straight. We had to hand them in to her quarterly and she was always so kind and worked with us to make it a happy situation. I loved serving with her. What a humble, sweet soul, Evelyn was. ❤️

Jill Healey

What a lovely lady 💕so sorry for your loss. She certainly lived a wonderful life full of love and joy for her family and all who knew her. Sending hugs and heart felt condolences to your family.

Carol Lynn Vredeveld

It was always a great pleasure to attend an Olympus basketball game and be able to spend a brief time catching up with Barnes family news with Lee and Evelyn. Always happy to hear the latest about my two buds Steve and Matt along with their families. My condolences to all, a great lady has moved on.

Paul Sabin
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