Jason Robert Lilien

I am so sorry for your loss. RIP

Roberta, I worked with Jason side-by-side every day for years and considered him closer than a friend. Well, I have not seen him for years, he plays prominently in my memory of my career in life. I’m sad and beyond measure to learn of his passing, And at the same time grateful for the gospel you and your family have in your lives to understand you’ll see him again!

I will sadly not be in Utah on the day of his funeral, which I am infinitely saddened at having to miss his funeral services, but I wanted to send you this note and all of my love that you will feel his spirit and love on that special day, remembering him.

I shared a large part of my formative years with Jason as a teammate on swim teams, water polo and Lacrosse teams. He was a dear friend, the outgoing and courageous influence that inspired me to challenge myself and forced me to break out of my shell. Much of my happiness in Middle and High School is the direct result of Jason’s friendship and influence.

As much as I owe to Jason for a happy childhood it is nothing compared to the example he has set these last few years.

His courage and dignity during his struggle with cancer was amazing and instructive. I was awed each time we spoke at his selflessness and maturity. He was an incredible example of what it means to be a man and a father. My life is richer for having known him.

My condolences to his amazing family and all who loved him.

Roberta and family - my deepest condolences and sympathy at this time. Know you are in my thoughts. Jason was an unbelievable person, friend and colleague. He is sorely missed. May he rest in peace and be forever happy and joyful.

My love to the Lilien family from an old high school friend from JD. I got smart, no worries, and my kids went to Nottingham. Where all the cool kids go. Rest easy, Jason, you are loved.

I have funny memories from our dogs as a Bulldog to reflect upon but I will never forget randomly seeing each other in Miami after more than 20 years. First came the Lilian chuckle, then the smirk of a smile that I remembered reappeared, annd the “sup” so often heard back in high school. The familiar was followed by a warm hello embrace. Which was so not high school Lilian. Lol We had a quick catch up and I gave him our “local” spots to visit while in town, connecting him with other Bulldogs on the Beach.
I will remember the handsome kid I once knew with a smile that told a million stories but none of them truly best represented the sweet guy inside. Proud to learn he was a courageous man, that loved his family and was surrounded by love. Rest well kid.

Sorry for your loss my condolences to you and your family

Dear Roberta,
We were shocked and saddened yesterday by the news of Jason's passing. We did not know he had been ill. We are so sorry we will not be able to attend the viewing or service on Saturday. We are escorting our grandchildren to the General Conference session downtown that morning. We want you to know we love your family and counted it as a great blessing to be your neighbors while you lived in the Draper 11th Ward.
All the best to the Lilien family. We hope we will have another opportunity to see you in the future.
Conan and Cindy

Roberta,
I am so sorry to read about Jason’s passing! You guys always have a special place in my heart and mind! Thinking of you and praying sincerely for you and your family at this time. Hugs and love!
Jennie & Dave Bethers

Roberta and kids -
I'm so sad to hear of Jason's passing. We worked together for years and years and GS, and I have great memories of all that we were able to accomplish during that time. Jason was admired by many at GS, and was greatly missed after he left the firm. I feel that all of my memories of the early years of GS in Utah include Jason! Please know that you have many in Utah (and many at GS) who will miss him dearly. I am so sorry that we'll be out of town and will miss attending the funeral, but we are sending love and comfort to all of you!

Christy (Alter) Haymond & Brett Haymond

I'm so very sorry for your family's loss. I interviewed Jason a few times while he was at OneAmerica Financial and I found him to be kind, compassionate, sincerely helpful and very approachable. It was a joy to get to know him (briefly) and learn more about him and his management at OneAmerica. We had a side convo on skiing and man did his eyes light up as he told me about the very best places to visit in Utah.

I've lifted your family up in prayer. My sincere condolences.

Christina, Rachel and Family, I am so sorry for your loss as is my younger brother Jon who is slightly older than Jason. We remember Jason from when we were kids growing up in Syracuse. Hugs to you all.

Dear Roberta,
Our hearts ache and we are grieving with you and Matthew, Nicholas, and Eva. Jason was one of the most enjoyable colleagues that David has ever worked with. He was smart, funny, and engaging. His love for you and the kids was abundantly clear.

We are not going to be in Utah on the day of Jason’s memorial and we are both very sorry to not be there. You and the kids are in our hearts. He was a great one!

Love,
David and Susan

Jason and I were introduced to one another about five years ago. Two memories from our initial visits - Jason loved talking about Roberta and his kids, and Jason was always interested in what was going on with my family. He was a man of character to put it simply. Roberta and family, may the peace of God which surpasses all understanding bring you comfort and peace as you celebrate Jason’s amazing life. My sincere condolences. - Dean

So incredibly sad to hear of Jason’s passing. My deepest condolences to his family. Some of my fondest high school memories involve Jason and our circle of friends.

Dear Roberta and family,
Our hearts ache for you at this time. Jason was such a wonderful person, as are each of you. You are in our thoughts and prayers that God's love, and that of your extended family and many friends, will carry you throughout your lives until you reunite in heaven. We love you and wish we could have been there with you today.
We will always remember the kind, loving, and friendly Jason that once graced or lives.
Sweet blessings upon each of you.
Cory and Sheryl Stark

Dear Roberta and family,

I was deeply saddened to hear about Jason's passing. I had the privilege of working with him at Goldman Sachs during the early years of my career, and I’ll always remember his intelligence, quick wit, and great sense of humor. He had a lasting impact on me, both professionally and personally, and I feel grateful to have known him.

Please accept my sincere condolences during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Warmly,
Pradeep Shetty

I am so sorry for your loss. I had the pleasure of working with Jason at OneAmerica. He was an incredible person and will be deeply missed! Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

Dear Roberta and family,
I'm so very sorry to hear the news of Jason passing. Jason and I were friends and colleagues at Goldman for many years. Jason was a fun, caring and much admired leader. We shared a few challenges and many laughs together. My sincere condolences.

Phil

My deepest condolences regarding the passing of Jason. I worked with him briefly at OneAmerica and regret I wasn’t able to get to know him better before his departure. I’m glad he was able to focus on family the past year.

My prayers are with Jason and the family.
We worked together at GS he was a terrific person.

Jason, waaay too soon my brother. They say that only the good die young. But you packed more in your time than most do in a 100 years. I always loved seeing your chat pop up in Facebook when you were jetting off to India or some far off land. Deep respect for your intelligence and hustle and professional achievements, and for your very successful family. My son Andrew told me of how lovingly your children recounted at your service your committment to always being at their events, every sporting, academic and everything else a dad is called upon to be there for. Well done, man. While I won't see you in Mormon heaven, hopefully there's a bar up there that's in between the different zones, kind of like the neutral bar between the Crips and the Bloods turf where everybody can get together and shoot the shit. My dad came to me in the middle of the night shortly after he died, just to let me know everything is alright. It seemed like it might have taken an extraordinary effort on his part to cross back to this realm. If it isn't too difficult, I'd like to see you like that, just to hear you tell me everything is cool up there and that we'll all see each other again.

And to Roberta, I cannot imagine your pain right now. My heart goes out to you and to the fine family you and Jason have created.

Roberta. I met Jason for the first time in NYC when presenting the idea of moving to Utah. Then worked together in SLC after you moved. Jason was a delight....smart, happy, focused and talented more than most. Blessings to you at this difficult time.

Jason was such an incredible person. I worked alongside him at Goldman Sachs and he was always so welcoming. I loved talking to him about his passion for skiing. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Dear Roberta,

Please accept my deepest condolences during this hardest of times.. Jason was a terrific and respected leader and foremost a terrific human being, whom I had a privilege to share some common years at Goldman Sachs.

-Panu

We’re still thinking of you and the kids Roberta. Sending love.