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Norma Going Wolfgramm Hafoka Me'e


1950•2026

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Norma Going Wolfgramm Hafoka-Me'e, age 75, passed away peacefully on June 26, 2026, surrounded by her loving family at her home in Riverton, Utah.

Norma was born on December 23, 1950, in Nuku'alofa, Tongatapu, Tonga, to Iohani and Salote Wolfgramm. She was the twelfth of nineteen children. In 1965, she immigrated with her family to the United States, where she later met and married John Brent Dean. Together they had four children—Taunya, Reed, Wayne, and Travis—and later welcomed an adopted daughter, Anya.

Following her divorce in 1993, Norma took a trip to Anchorage, Alaska, where she met and married the love of her life Sione Vaikoula Me'e and moved there with her children. Together they built a life centered on faith, family, and service, and even raised a few of their grandchildren as their own.

Throughout her life, Norma worked in many occupations, including casket manufacturing, housekeeping, security, and the food service industry. She was a devoted member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and served faithfully as an ordinance worker in the Anchorage Alaska Temple for over 20+ years. She also served as a family history consultant and later completed a service mission alongside her husband, Sione.

Norma found joy in Polynesian dancing, teaching those dances to the younger generation, genealogy, camping, fishing, sewing blankets, and watching classic films such as The Sound of Music and The King and I. She believed wholeheartedly that children should experience the joy of childhood. Whether they were her own children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, church children, or neighborhood kids, she made sure they were well fed, well loved, and always had something fun to do.

To many, Norma was far more than just a grandmother or just an aunt—she was a mother to everyone. Her home was a place of love, guidance, laughter, and belonging, and her influence reached across generations. She leaves behind a legacy of faith, compassion, humility, generosity, and unwavering devotion to her family.

Norma is survived by eleven siblings: Malina, Taiana, Tisina, Samuela, Walter, Leilani, Florence, Elsie, Tila, Iuni, and Semisi; her children, Taunya (Taumoha'apai), Reed, Wayne (Fernanda), Travis (Kalala), and Anya (Vili); 28 grandchildren; and 18 great-grandchildren.

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From the very first time I met Sister Noma until the very last time I saw her, I never forgot her smile or the kindness that radiated from her countenance. She was truly beautiful, both inside and out.

As one of the eight widows in our Riverton 24th Tongan Ward, Sister Noma became a cherished and steady part of our ward family. She loved the Savior, and she loved to serve. After the passing of her beloved husband, there was a noticeable decline in her health, yet her faith never wavered. She continued to worship in the temple, faithfully participated in Relief Society, and remained an example of quiet discipleship to all who knew her.

One of the things I will always remember was seeing her on Fast and Testimony Sunday. No matter how difficult it became, she would make her way to the pulpit to bear her testimony of Jesus Christ. Her witness was sincere, steadfast, and filled with love. She also spoke often of her beloved parents and their faithful missionary service. It was evident how deeply she loved her family and how grateful she was for the heritage of faith they had given her.

Sister Noma blessed our ward in countless quiet ways. Her gentle spirit, enduring faith, and unwavering kindness have left a lasting imprint on our hearts. We are better because we knew her, served alongside her, and were loved by her.

With love and gratitude, on behalf of the Relief Society sisters, thank you, Sister Noma, for your beautiful example. Until we meet again, may God keep you in His loving embrace.

Heilala Taumoefolau

In the short time that we were able to spend with Grama Noma, was nothing less of GREAT! We were always greeted with “ you are my family, if you need anything let me know “ she was outgoing and full of life at such an old age. Always kind to my family and thoughtful.

My most recent interaction with Grama Noma, we were talking and in Tongan (her English was great) and each question she asked was in Tongan my replies were also in Tongan. So the next day I go outside (we’re neighbors lol) to scold my boys for not listening and she’s driving pass, she stops and starts yelling at me to leave them alone they’re kids. So I do than she comes knocking on my door with a box of fruits and canned veggies, I invite her in we start talking about family ties and then she starts asking about my background, so I start explaining lol and in the middle of that I state that I am Samoan with no Tongan heritage and she stops me and says “ wait what your Samoan ?” I answer yes Grama I thought you knew and she goes, if I knew I wouldn’t be telling you about a Tongan family tree you have no ties too “ omg we sat here laughing for a minute and before she left she said thank you for loving the Tongan culture and let me just say she took the words right out my brain & I thought about it for days and when I saw her next I thanked her for loving Samoans and it became our inside joke. I loved that about Noma she was always forward but with no ill intent. My children were always fed and well in her company and as a mother that is everything!

Thank you all for sharing her with us ❤️🤙🏾

Alofa Aku ia outou & Manuia Lou Malaga Tinā ❤️

Langi Aiga

Being your daughter in law has been such a blessing to me, thank you for your example and for the love you always shared, we will always remember you and you will live forever in our hearts. Love you Mom, rest in love. Till we meet again. Emilia loves you too.

Fernanda Dean

My husband and I served with Sister Me'e and her sweet husband as Service Missionaries in the Tongan Rose Park 5th Ward for over 2 years. How blessed we were to get to know the both of them through their incredible love of serving! Her love of family history work and her zeal for sharing it was truly such a blessing!!!! I can't help, but think of those on the other side of the veil who were so happy to greet her as she joined them!!! I pray her posterity keeps that same love of family history work going!! She shared a timeline of, I think, the Old Testament given to her by our prophet David O. McKay. How proud she was of this!!! What an honor to know both Elder and Sister Me'e. 💕

Tonie Hale
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