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Shayne Lee Miller


1964•2026

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Shayne Lee Miller passed away on Sunday, August 9, 2026. He was born on October 22, 1964, in Salt Lake City, Utah, to David and Tracey Miller. In 1970, he moved to Chandler, Arizona, where he spent most of his childhood and early adulthood. Shayne was the oldest of seven children and spent many hours helping his dad with Arabian horse shows and building their family home. He loved riding his bicycle and three-wheelers, as well as playing sports. Shayne was also a gifted artist who submitted his artwork in school competitions and earned numerous awards. He also had a gift for giving nicknames, many of which have stayed with his family for years.

Shayne graduated from Mesa High School in 1982. The following year, he left to serve as a missionary for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Stockholm, Sweden, where he formed many lifelong connections.

After returning home from Sweden, Shayne moved back to the Salt Lake City area, which remained his home for the rest of his life.

In his early twenties, Shayne spent much of his time with his cousins waterskiing, snow skiing, and working in the family business. Through a persistent and carefully arranged meetup, those same cousins eventually introduced him to the love of his life, Nyla Medill. They fell in love and were later married in the Jordan River Temple on September 10, 1988.

Together, Shayne and Nyla raised three children: Brayden Adam, Kaitlyn Lee, and Alexia Brynn. Shayne was a remarkable father who set an incredible example for his children through his wisdom, resilience, and integrity. Throughout the years, he shared many of his interests with them, including fly-tying, insects, fossils, geology, history (particularly the American West), foods from different cultures, hunting, and fishing. He took great joy in connecting with his children through these interests and always encouraged them to embrace what they loved.

Of all Shayne’s interests, fly-tying held a special place in his heart. He loved studying rivers and their ecosystems, from the insects fish feed on throughout the seasons, to the way colors appear in the water. He would collect insects directly from the river and carefully recreate them using thread, feathers, and other materials. Over the years, Shayne hand-tied hundreds, if not thousands, of flies, and was consistently complimented on his abilities by fishing guides and gifted anglers. Although he loved fishing many of the West’s rivers, the northern section of the Green River was especially dear to him.

Shayne was a lifelong learner who attended both the University of Utah and Westminster College, earning a bachelor’s degree in economics, an MBA, and a master’s degree in accounting. Throughout his career, he held a variety of roles before becoming the chief financial officer Youth Health Associates (YHA). He genuinely loved his work and the people he worked with, many of whom knew him as a patient leader and trusted counselor.

Beyond his professional career, Shayne generously shared his time and talents with his church and community. He served in various elders quorum roles, as a Sunday School teacher, and as a Young Men leader. He also served for many years on the Board of Directors of American Conservation Experience (ACE), a nonprofit that engages young people in conservation projects. After serving several years as chair, he was named ACE’s first and only Honorary Board Member. He also volunteered with the Utah Division of Wildlife Resources, conducting fish surveys, and received the UACPA Rising Star Award in 2014. In 2025, YHA established the annual Shayne Miller Impact Award and Scholarship Fund in his honor, recognizing employees who positively impact the lives of those around them each day.

On May 14, 2024, Shayne was diagnosed with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis (ALS). Although this news changed the expected timeline of his life, Shayne continued to learn, love, and give. In his final years, he continued to work, spend meaningful time with those he loved, and collaborate with bioengineering students at the University of Utah on the development of a robotic neck brace for people living with ALS. Despite the challenges of his illness, Shayne never let it define the way he lived. He continued to pursue the things that brought him joy, including his beloved annual fishing trips, where, on one memorable day, he proudly netted 20 fish.

Shayne is survived by his beloved wife, Nyla; his children, Brayden, Kaitlyn, and Alexia; his mother, Tracey; his siblings, Sauna, Derek (Camille), Erin (Bruce), Tylan (Marcy), Cody (Kristen), and Megan (Brian); his sisters-in-law, Wendy and April (Ron); and his 31 nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father, David, and his brother-in-law, Sterling.

Shayne’s greatest legacy lives on in those he loved. His counsel and patience left a lasting imprint on his family, his friends, and all whose lives he touched.

Funeral services will be held at Noon on Friday, August 21, 2026 at the Sunridge Ward, 1850 East 8600 South in Sandy Utah. A visitation will be held on Thursday evening, August 20, 2026 from 6-8 PM at Larkin Sunset Gardens Mortuary, 1950 East Dimple Dell Road in Sandy, Utah. Another visitation will be held prior to funeral services at the ward beginning at 10:30 AM. Interment will follow at the Memorial Holladay Cemetery.

Funeral services will be streamed and recorded via Zoom for those wishing to attend virtually. To watch the previously held services, please click the "Watch Services" link above.

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Shayne is one of the smartest men I’ve ever known. He was always learning, always growing, and always taking the time to coach me—about hunting, about life, and about how to be a better man. Some of my favorite memories with him are those early mornings turkey hunting or sitting together tying flies. I loved watching how calmly he handled whatever life threw his way, and how quickly he adapted, learned, and moved forward.

I’m deeply grateful for his kindness and his friendship. I will miss him more than I can say. I’m thankful to have known him and to have been welcomed by his wonderful family, who have influenced my life in ways they may never fully realize.

Thank you all. I love you.

Devin

I worked with Shayne at his own business years ago and he was the smartest person I knew. Trivia pursuit was a game he knew all the answers and it drove me crazy. His B52 band was his favorite group. The love shack. Drove me silly also. I will miss you Shayne.

Christopher Mudd

We love you dear Nyla, Brayden, Kaitlyn, and Lexi!
We are so sorry that Shayne will no longer be here with you…
We are so sad for your loss, but grateful that Shayne was blessed with such a wonderful wife and family!
May you all be blessed with the peace and comfort Jesus promises each of us in our deepest despair. Never doubt the truth that you will see your loving father and husband again… And all things will be made perfect and holy because of His sacrifice for us.
We love you all SO much!!!
Louise, Mark, Matt, and Zack Kingston ❤️

Louise Kingston

It is hard to find the right words to say goodbye to someone who has been part of your life for so many years.

He and I grew up next door to each other on small farms in Chandler, Arizona, beginning in the early 1970s. We were just two kids growing up in a very different Chandler than the one we know today. Our families raised horses, and those horses—and the farms we grew up on—were such a big part of our childhood. We went to high school together, and through all the years and changes that life brought us, we remained friends.

After his mission, he moved to Salt Lake City and began a life of his own there. Years went by, but somehow the distance never erased the friendship we had made as kids.

I will always remember a trip I took to Salt Lake City in 2004 with my four-year-old daughter, Paris. We were there for a ski trip, and on a whim I opened the hotel phone book and looked for them…. I found Shayne and Nyla Miller…. And I called.

They were so excited to hear from me. They came to pick us up at the hotel, and Nyla made us a beautiful dinner. Their children, who were just a little older than Paris, were so sweet to her. His sister, Sauna, brought her children too, and before long it felt as though no time had passed at all. We were simply old friends and family, catching up around a table and sharing stories.

That is one of the things I will treasure most about him. He had a way of making the years in between disappear.

And then there was the birthday calls….

Every year, he called me on my birthday.

No matter how much time had passed, no matter how busy life became, he remembered. That simple phone call became one of those little traditions that I never took for granted.

He truly was one of a kind.

I am grateful that I got to know him not just as the man he became, but as the boy he was—the boy who grew up on the farm next door, who loved horses, who went to school with me, and who shared those wonderful, ordinary childhood years that become so precious as we get older.

I am grateful that life gave us so many years of friendship, and that even though our lives took us in different directions, we never completely lost touch.

I am heartbroken that he is gone. My heart breaks for Nyla and their kids, his mom, and all of his siblings and their families. At the same time, I feel incredibly lucky that he was part of my life.

I will always remember the boy I grew up with, the friend who stayed in my life through the years, and the man who never forgot to call me on my birthday.
Rest peacefully, my dear friend.

Nancy Thomas Elton

Shane was a gentle giant. He was our home teacher and made our lives better for it. He was kind, considerate and cared about his family and friends. He loved to laugh and genuinely cared for others.
He loved his family and his sweet wife. He is in our hearts.

Carolyn Curran

I’m so sorry for your loss Nyla prayers for you and your family.

Shone Walton Mitchelson

I didn’t know Shayne personally. But I sure know what a remarkable family he came from. Sounds like he was a wonderful brother in Christ. Sending blessings from one who loves Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ to the Miller family. Peace to with you all❤️

Kim Tennant

My sincere condolences to your family. Elder Miller is how I will always remember him, he being my senior companion in Södertälje Sweden. I learned how to love the people more because of him and not just focus on the mechanics of missionary work. That truly was a gift that I still keep trying to emulate. May God be with you all during this time of grief and remembrance.

DAVID W LANDEN

We are so sorry for your loss and our family is praying for yours!

Marc and Margo Slavin

So sorry for you losing Shayne. We hope better days are ahead for you.
Love, April and Ron

April J. Lund
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